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Sonja on the Anna Nicole Smith Thing

Sonja explains why she skipped Heather's, but does admit that Ramona "bird dogged" Heather and Carole.

By Sonja Morgan

I love it! Ramona walks in to the jewelry party and says -- "Of course I'm always here to support you!" Heather and Ramona, best friends as always! I almost spit my wine out. How things change over time.

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Having said that, I'm happy because I like both girls and think we can have some fun times together. I know I have a ball with them separately -- why not together?

I mean remember when Heather disinvited Ramona to London? Ramona was pissed. I went and now they are very friendly. Maybe we can go on a trip together? Maybe, just maybe. But Aviva???? Oh how that has changed as well. . .

Now she has disinvited Aviva. I feel bad. I didn't feel bad when Ramona was disinvited to London because it was Heather's trip, it was costly and Ramona is a big girl. Aviva has been cut out of everything. A'Diva is fragile, in my eyes, been through a lot of crap for decades and now she was invited to the anniversary party and then not invited! Ramona was never invited to London.

Oh my, this Jonathan is soooo hot. And he buys caviar! That trumps the makeup for the "rough times" earrings gift Josh gave Kristen. I get the feeling Jonathan doesn't need an excuse to give a gift! He's just a mush mot! He's a lover.

When the girls are talking to Jonathan about having a three-way, I can see, like me, they weren't thinking about the classic-two-girls-getting-it-on-while-the-guy-watched. They were all just thinking about getting with Jonathan! I can see why Heather didn't agree. Kristen even said that she loves Josh, but Jonathan is so much more affectionate! That wins eeeeevery time.

Aviva saying that Anna Nicole Smith's spiral downwards was similar to my situation is not a compliment. After all, the girl is dead. I said this before. I think that Aviva gets nervous and blurts things out in her defense instead of going with her feelings. Why didn't she just say that she was wrong in saying that and that she adored me? Or say that she was just lashing out and coming from a bad place, and that #Ramonja got over it? That would have shut Heather down, no?


Ramona can be very stressing when she gets Ramotional. I understand Avery saying that she would rather go work with her dad. I feel the same way with Ramona at times, but she means well because she really does care. Otherwise she would not be emoting so strongly. The good times make up for the Ramona-coaster times.

Ramona has been an outstanding mother to Avery and Avery is the perfect example of that.

Carole and I have another man in common -- Yolanda's husband David Foster. The housewife world really is so small! But at least he's real! Can we talk about Kristen and the fake Elvises that she has allegedly has been swapping spit with? We really have to get to know this other side of Kristen. As the stomach turns.



Heather said that she was going to invite Aviva, then I find out she disinvited for sure at Aviva's house with Ramona. Ramona wanted to go to the Hamptons and I wanted to go to St. Tropez with Big Ben to check on my house that is for sale. The energy was bad for Heather's party and Ramona and I took it as a great excuse to take off.

Heather said we weren't the special favorite people -- so I don't think she really missed us. Besides, we gave them something to bitch about. There was nothing else to vent about. Fringe friends is probably true. So. . .off to St Tropez I went with Ben to my best friend (and Godmother to my daughter) and to get that house sold.

Kristen said that I would care if Heather did not came to one of my parties. She really doesn't know me. Not true! I'm not like that. I have a lot of parties and friends. I understand, and I'm flexible. I appreciate my friendship with Heather more than showing up to a party. We will have and have had many good times together, in fact I texted her to let her know why I needed to go to St. Tropez and she understood (besides that hot guy LuLu spotted was a guy Heather wanted to set ME up with!)

Ramona bird-dogged Heather and Carole big time. She sent Carole hunting after Aviva at her housewarming party and then somehow Heather got in a twist with Ramona? Oh, that Singer Stinger!

Top Three Outfits of Tonight's Episode
1) Sonja at The Container Store: Zara skirt, Diane von Furstenberg blouse, red snakeskin Ramiro Encizo bag.
2) Kristen in an all white wife-beater silk t-shirt and Harem pants at Heather's anniversary.
3) LuAnn's dress with cutouts at Heather's anniversary party -- her own Countess Luann Collection out in May.

Thank you for watching. Tune in next week when I lose it on Ramona. Girls with be girls.

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