But is cordial too much to ask?

on Nov 13, 2012 - The Dish0

Lisa Vanderpump and Adrienne Maloof

Love thy neighbor may be a stretch for The Real Housewives of Beverly HillsAdrienne Maloof and Lisa Vanderpump considering the frenemies are no longer even, you know, actual neighbors.

“Well, I thought we had moved past that point and apparently she hadn't yet. I mean, we're never going to be BFFs. I know that,” Adrienne tells The Examiner about leaving their who-sold-it? story scandal locked up in the past. “But I'm hoping we can both be adults and take the pettiness out of our relationship and be polite to each other. I certainly want that for my side, I hope she would want the same.”



Now that Adrienne’s extended the Redwood of olive branches by sending a (ginormous) floral arrangement to Lisa’s party, how does the uninvited ‘Wife think Lisa can return the favor? “I think she needs to stop with the insulting digs. You can't just wrap them up in British humor and expect people to think you're this lovely, sophisticated woman when I think people are smart enough to read through it, and it's just a dig,” says the freshly divorced mom of three. “So, let's just get real and stop the bickering and the insulting. To me, it's very high school and very mean girl.”

Where do you fall in this war of the words? Start a Tweet Battle and show your Adrienne or Lisa allegiance.

34 comments
girlw
girlw

Or you could wrap it up in the biggest, most obnoxious "flower arrangement" available and call it an Olive Branch.....

MissingMonday
MissingMonday

" You can't just wrap them up in British humour and expect people to think...."

YEAH YOU CAN IF YOU HAVE A SENSE HUMOUR.

Lighten up, you are looking for a reason to be mad at Lisa, because of the uncalled for things you said at the reunion. You are trying to divert the situation. You want to see MEAN GIRL, look in the mirror honey.

lafave11
lafave11

Go Adrienne. Let go Lisa and move on

lafave11
lafave11

I think Adrienne is right. No matter What had happened they can money on. People hang on to petty issues

alice@5
alice@5

Alice, 2012.

I You really cant blame Lisa for the way she's acting. remember she was accused for something she didn't do.  just give he more time.

cars121
cars121

The proof is in the pudding of prior seasons & their aftermath/results.  Adrienne's PERPETUAL distainful, indifference to her now ex-husband, is a clear measure of exactly who she is.  Her placing herself & her Vegas hotel above the importance of the only focus being a wonderful celebration of Pandora's impending wedding, further cemented the reality of what Adrienne's about & what she values.  And she expects viewers to believe that the woman who strongly stated 'the love is in the details' would send the monstrous floral arrangement to Lisa as a sincere gesture?  GIMME A BREAK!  Viewers didn't fall off the pumpkin patch truck, Adrienne.  Take a good hard look in the mirror & own your flaws/failings...unless you prefer to live alone in our self righteousness.  You're the poster woman for what NOT to do.  Your behavior isn't that of a strong, independent woman, it's that of a self absorbed shrew. 

baroquep
baroquep

There is a big difference when attacking someone's *reputation* by accusing them of selling stories to a celebrity rag versus making a silly joke about a shoe (personally I thought the comment was cute and not derogatory) for which Lisa has already profusely apologized for.  If anyone is being childish here, it is definitely Adrienne.  In case Adrienne hadn't already noticed, Lisa makes sarcastic comments to just about everyone, including her own husband and I think Adrienne took it a little too personally. Sending flowers was just a way of avoiding taking responsibility for a very serious accusation and not really an apology. Hopefully she will make a sincere apology to Lisa.  This fight (like a marjority of the fights between the women) was caused by Taylor's gossip to try and stir the pot before the reunion last year trying to get everyone to gang up on Lisa and it looks like this seaon her target is Brandy.

nvt
nvt

Adrienne seems to think she can bully Lisa into an apology that she is not owed. Adrienne tried once or twice to bring Lisa down by snarking behind her back to the others. Adrienne , get a clue it didn't work then and it's not working now. You should have apologized months ago, not wait for the camera's. Your family fortune has dwindled, I think it's left you bitter.

BeachBunny23
BeachBunny23

Adrienne falsely accusing Lisa about selling stories was shocking and even after Lisa denied and looked horrified that someone would even accuse of her that... Adrienne still kept pushing and falsely accusing her of selling stories.  That was a low blow and could have affected her business in a bad way. It was obvious that the 3 women on the couch- Adrienne, Kyle and Taylor were ready to divide the group against Lisa.... not a good move. The audience could see it stemmed from pure jealousy of how well-liked Lisa was. That was really unfair to Lisa and very sad to watch at the reunion.

Aswillia1
Aswillia1

 Luv, luv, luv Lisa...she has always been my favorite! Lisa was right not to invite A to the party and exclude her from her circle. The only reason A cares so much now is because she is embarrassed that she wasn't invited to the party tho her friends were. Seriously, if the cameras weren't rolling and they didn't travel in the same circles, A wouldn't care...IF A truly cared, she would have apologized to Lisa...ha, and she STILL refuses to apologize; yet has the audacity to think that Lisa somehow owes her an apology. KRAZY (yes, with a K). Adrienne is a 'mean girl' (as she showed at the reunion and towards Paul)...she's jealous and owes Lisa an apology! Hmmm, betcha she's going to use her divorce from Paul to gain as much sympathy as she can from everyone (knowing deep down she didn't give a daaaaayum about Paul).

mtieger
mtieger

Is it my imagination or was the worlds ugliest floral bouquet wheeled in from Adrienne.

Wow just hideous. Jeff Lewis plz comment here!

susanzavagli
susanzavagli

Adrienne made a heavy accussation against LISA she had nothing to back up her argument she didn't even know what these so called tabloids were writing Lisa was stunned.......Adrienne know all the facts befoe you go pointing your fickled finger

lilsunshine
lilsunshine

I just have to say that Mrs. Lisa Vanderpump you are an amazing woman. You have always been to me the perfect balance between naughty girl fun and genteel sweetness. Of course I am amazed at the work on the Alzheimer's or Breast Cancer charities with all the pampering, you girls get to experience I bet its nice to show that you care so much about others too. Bless you and the Others that work so hard to keep things hopeful out there

BeeReel4U
BeeReel4U

Usually, Adrienne......A person accusing another of a specific behavior or offense, should have undeniable proof before opening ones mouth.  We can blog forever on this...So, I want to know why you (Adrienne), haven't come out with your proof??  I want to know, as everyone else, how you know Lisa did this.  You were so adamant on the reunion, give it up, now or never.  You need to save your dignity now, and if you can't or you don't, you will loose your loyal fans.  Me for one!!!  I used to think you were the realist one in the group, involve whoever you need to, but save yourself and tell your audience where you got your information, PLEASE!!

mugzymaxaj
mugzymaxaj

Sorry people, but no matter what you can tell that Lisa V is the real deal.  I'm not saying she perfect, but regardless of her reality tv status, this is a woman that you can just tell would/s someone I would love to call a friend and have in my corner.  As for Adrienne and Kyle (sorry but Taylor not relevent), Adrienne is a spoiled brat trying to make viewers believe she is a strong business woman like Lisa and she has failed miserably at that because we the viewers are not stupid and it is obvious she is NOT. As for Kyle, she wanted/wants to be the "loved by the public break out star" of the series and again she is not. Kyle is the type to throw a valued friend and even family under the bus for her bite at fame and she will continue to lose her fan base because most viewers can see through the fakeness, but as for LADY VANDERPUMP, again this woman is the epitomy of class and you can just see what a great friend and all around loyal friend she is regardless if the cameras are on or off!!!!!! 

RileyRoo
RileyRoo

Where did the idea that Lisa was selling stories come from anyway?  What purpose in the world would she have to sell any story...I think she is pretty well off in every way.  Adrienne is clueless and her social skills are questionable.  How would they just move past her attack on Lisa? Everyone should just pretend that it didn't happen...come on.  Sending the flowers was really lame too, and then Paul was asking everyone if anyone was talking about him and Adrienne...of course they were after the largest flower arrangement in history was wheeled into the party. 

EllieJ
EllieJ

Adrianna needs to be the one apologizing. She should never have accused Lisa of selling a story unless she had first hand proof. When Lisa said she would never sell a story, you felt the need to say you don' t believe her so get used to being shunned . You sound ridiculous expecting an apology when you were the rude one.

calvin.right
calvin.right

Adrienne couldve gone to lisa in PRIVATE and asked(or even accused) her of selling stories about her. But no, she instead saved it all for the reunion and attempted to humiliate her publicly. Thats how devious and spiteful she is. Who the hell would blindside a friend like that? Thats no friend and Lisa knows. Hence she doesnt want to know her anymore. No sane person would not understand why. You dont need toxic untrustworthy people around you. Adriennes only saving grace is theyre on a show together and therefor Lisa may eventually be cordial around. But if there were no show Lisa would just cut her the hell out her life..like cancer.

socialbutterfly908
socialbutterfly908

I agree with Adrienne. Lisa made some very snarky comments about Adrienne throughout last season. "Look out Maloof Hoof, Vanderpump is going to kick your ass." How can anyone say that wasn't a dig? Taylor was the one who started the rumor about Lisa selling stories to tabloids. Instead of being two faced and a flip flopper like Taylor is so very often. Adrienne said it to Lisa's face. She said what everyone else was thinking. When she realized how wounded it made Lisa feel, Adrienne immediately apologized. I don't think Adrienne was expecting Lisa to be so hurt, Lisa has very thick skin. I don't think Adrienne realized at the time how slanderous her comments were going to be construed. At the time Adrienne was PO'd at Lisa. The comments Lisa made about the dog and Adrienne's shoes were mean in spirit. If Lisa can dish it out, she needs to learn to dish it in.

thecrows
thecrows

ADRIENNE, I THINK WHAT YOU DID WAS JUST NASTY. YOU CAN"T THINK SOMEONE IS GOING TO JUST FORGET THAT, YOU KNOW THAT YOU COULD NOT.

Lck
Lck

Lisa made a couple of jokes... Adrienne insulted Lisa's integrity and was proved wrong, she also allowed her chef to badmouth Lisa on TV and all over town. No comparison. Adrienne's actions were insulting and damaging to Lisa.

penneyone
penneyone

Adrienne,     Watch the show now. Not one of the other Housewives agree with you. Give it up and apologize already to Lisa. Viewers want to like you again.

calvin.right
calvin.right

 @mugzymaxaj well said. Kyle is also a big time user. Uses her rich friends to bring her husband their property business. Thats why she plays both sides when it suits.

calvin.right
calvin.right

 @RileyRoo LOL they were desperate to have some presence at the party. What better way than some huge ugly tree thing that would get everybody talking about its real intentions?

STORMY101
STORMY101

 @socialbutterfly908

 Hell butterfly she was joking.  A play on words like Maloof Hoof, and watch out for the Vander PUMP It was actually funny. Not mean.

zookeeper93
zookeeper93

 @socialbutterfly908 Maloof hoof was a play on words-Adrienne is just too high school mentality and immature to find anything clever in anyone else she is threatened by. That is hardly the same as what Adrienne accused Lisa of, and falsely so. Now, A just wants to have no consequences for her nasty behavior.

mugzymaxaj
mugzymaxaj

 @socialbutterfly908

 Well social butterfly the way anyone can see that Lisas "Maloof Hoof" comment on that EPISODE was NOT a dig are people who HAVE a sense of humor and can tell when someone is joking! And personally I think Adrienne missed out on a hellof a way to sell her shoe. Just comes down to Adrienne, and Kyle for that matter were/are jealous cause Lisa was the STAR (cause she was herself)and they were not!!!!!

socialbutterfly908
socialbutterfly908

 @Lck "integrity" I wouldn't go as far as to say that. If Lisa wanted to make some cash and sale true stories I wouldn't say that would mean Lisa lacked integrity.

calvin.right
calvin.right

 @penneyone its too late though. Now its fake apology. shouldve come instantly and from the heart and IN PRIVATE. Lisa now knows she's no true friend. Thats irreparable.

calvin.right
calvin.right

 @OCally tbh Ive never got the feeling she has many friends. Certainly not seen any other than the housewives. I think she's always had emplyees and not friends which maybe explains her not knowing how to treat friends right.

penneyone
penneyone

 @calvin.right   I agree with what you wrote too.  I just can not believe Adrienne thinks she is owed an apology from Lisa. I just don't think people want to hate Adrienne yet. She is no Taylor.....