Cast Blog: #MARRIED2MED

Simone's Mixed Emotions

Toya Asks Herself the Tough Questions

Mariah Is Ready to Plant New Seeds

Simone: Yes, I'm Still Angry with Toya

Quad: What's Good for the Goose

Heavenly: Everyone Makes Mistakes

Lisa Nicole on Her Head and Heartaches

Dr. Jackie on the Many Flavors of Shade

Quad's Moment of Clarity

Simone: I Won't Fight Toya

Pretty Much Everything Mariah Said Was a Lie

Mariah on the Deep and Dangerous Reunion

Toya on Typical Ghetto Simone

Simone Is Happy This Season's Over

The Top 10 Things Mariah Learned This Season

Quad Addresses the Puppy Haters

Jackie: We Are All Queens

Heavenly Doles Out Relationship Advice

Toya: Rhyming Reasons

Meet Lisa Nicole's Alter Ego Nikki

Why Mariah Extended the Olive Branch

Quad: Walk the Walk

The Married to Medicine Ladies Work Smart

Simone: I'm Not Swaying

Heavenly: We Don't Need a Queen

Toya Is Disappointed With Mariah

Lisa Nicole: Cheating Is Never Justified

Mariah: Why Camp When You Can Glamp?

Quad Thinks the People Have Spoken

Simone Won't Hang With Thugs

Jackie: Failure Is Not an Option

Toya Thinks Simone Is Stirring the Sh--

Heavenly Is Still #TeamDaddy

Lisa Nicole: Walking Away Is Easy

Quad: Dr. G Knows What He Has

Jackie's Ready for Her Husband to Show

Simone Talks Couples' Therapy

Heavenly: It Takes Seconds to Lose Trust

Lisa Hopes Mariah Can Own Her Truth

Mariah Sees a Season of Blessings

Jackie: I Was Blind, But Now I See

Simone's Mixed Emotions

Dr. Simone explains why she didn't call Mariah after the fight and why she's not on anyone's side in this fight.

The doctor is in and having mixed emotions.

This is definitely one of the best weekends of the year when Cecil and I get to hang out for Morehouse and Spelman's Homecoming. You were only able to see a small part of a fun weekend with friends we have known for many years. Also, you got a glimpse of Cecil's pride and joy, his new bar. The bar was built by Classic Bars in Atlanta and the owner, Bob, is a true artist. If you want a custom bar, I would highly recommend Classic Bars.

We had a great time at our homecoming kickoff event with our friends. I was glad Jackie and Toya joined us and met some of our friends. We were sad to miss hanging with Dr. Eugene. Toya is definitely hurt regarding the fight and seems to be sincerely concerned about her relationship with Mariah. Her conversation with Dr. Eugene makes it very clear how much this is affecting her.

Jackie's idea for hosting a Lemon Squeeze seemed to be a good plan for getting the ladies together to see if we could meet at some crossroads and move forward as a circle of friends. However, watching the ladies’ reactions at the Lemon Squeeze is very disappointing. Sour attitudes were a mainstay and made for an uncomfortable and tense gathering.

I was disappointed to hear Mariah say she felt as though I turned my back on her. I will admit I didn't reach out to Mariah after the fight to get her side of the story because I could NOT believe the Mariah I had known for nine years would fight and I had no idea why she was fighting. In retrospect, I should have called her to ask what happened, but the angry and stubborn side of me could not make the call.

Toya reached out and showed her appreciation for my help after the fight. For her gestures, I am thankful because it showed me her gentle side, which helped form a new bond for us. In no way does this mean I took Toya’s side regarding the fight. In my opinion, they were both wrong.

The most difficult part of watching this week's show is hearing Mariah say over and over again that Dr. Jackie couldn’t understand what Mariah was going through because she did not have a biological child of her own. Well, I am a mother and I do understand Mariah’s anger and frustration about not wanting Lauren’s adoption revealed in the way it was done, but I don't understand physically fighting. Things happen all of the time in life that make you want to knock the hell out of someone, but your mind balances the impulse with more rational thoughts, such as the fear of consequences like going to jail. I have learned to resolve conflicts in other ways. So, the comment Mariah makes about Dr. Jackie’s inability to understand issues surrounding children is callous and insensitive.

As an OBGYN, I often deal with the patients who have never been able to conceive. It destroys women and families on a regular basis. Thus Mariah's comment about "not understanding," now seems to come full circle. Mariah doesn't understand how a woman feels when she is unable to have a baby but Dr. Jackie didn’t swing at her, did she!?!

I can't wait for next week's episode when all of the ladies get an opportunity to go to a beautiful winery and relax. It would be a blessing if a different setting could help us get some resolutions to our many issues.

Stay tuned for WWHL tonight with Andy Cohen where I’ll be making a house call!

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Simone: Yes, I'm Still Angry with Toya

Simone says she's not a fence rider and thinks Toya lacks the "intellect" and "maturity" to be on Married to Medicine.

Whew! We made it through Reunion still alive and in one piece, but just barely. Mysteries remain intact, questions were left unaswered, old friendships were severed forever and some new friendships just couldn't get off the ground.  Where in the world does this mess leave this group?

I truly believe Married to Medicine has something to offer America. Right now, we are the only show with seven married African American couples who also happen to have seven doctorates. Our young Black America needs to see more of this on TV, not fighting, murders, scandals or mistresses. We have shown everything life has to offer, the good, the bad and everything in between. A few of you have been so quick to criticize our behavior but realistically, everyone walking this earth experiences difficulties in relationships. And everyone has reacted or overreacted to a situation. Surely no one can should assume that a doctorate changes human nature or human responses.

Some of you swear you would never act like some of us, but I know you have behaved poorly behind closed doors. We chose to open the door and let the camera in. The scenarios in life are all the same, the only difference between my life and yours are the people in it!

It was difficult AGAIN to witness Toya telling a lie about her intent to fight me in front of my son AFTER calling me a bad mother.  It is sad that she can throw jabs and insults on the lowest levels but can not handle them in return. She doesn't have the self control, intellect or maturity to be on a show called Married to Medicine.  I am so sure she would fit in quite well on some other shows which I will not name for you today. (This is pure shade and yes, I'm still angry with her.)

I must share some final thoughts on Quad and Mariah, even though I know you're tired of beating a dead horse.  I did not say much on the Reunion after Toya lunged "to give me a hug" because I felt some of the ladies couldn't handle others' opinions about them even though they're quick to offer their own opinions about me.

In Quad's opinion, I am a fence rider. Let me make myself and my intent for Quad and Mariah's issues very clear. The ONLY thing I ever wanted for them was peace and friendship. If we couldn't have that, I wanted civility for the entire cast! Every lady on this show was a vital part of it. In my angriest moments this Season, I could still be in Toya's presence. Didn't want to talk to or sit near her but I never refused to attend an event because she was coming. Even after she tried to fight me at the Reunion, I continued to film with and was civil towards her. Hint: it’s called being mature.  In real life, you must be cordial to your co-workers even when you don’t like them.

Let me also make this point: anyone who thinks in her head she is more important, more revelant or better than anyone else on this show has the game all twisted and played wrong. It has truly been the combination of many factors and faces that contribute to the success of this show.

The biggest factor of them all is YOU, the fans. Without you willing to tune in each week at various times (and now different days) and share your thoughts and opinions on social media, it would not be possible to share Married to Medicine with the world. I thank you so much!

It was an interesting Season to say the least. I'm glad it's over and I'm curious about the future. Take care until . . .

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