A little about Toya. . .
Everyone has a past, good or bad. . .We're HUMAN! It's what we take away from our past, the lessons learned and how you transition the negatives into positives. I consider myself to be normal, never trying to put down another or act above them. I have never been one to try to fit in, because I've never had too. The head and not the tail!
My husband, family and friends love me for ALL of me, (The Good, Bad, and Indifferent) which is why I in turn give them the best of me. I love family and I love that we have a blast. It's not always perfection, definitely not The Cosby Show, but I am thankful that God has his hand all over my relationships.
He is why we continue to be better parents, better lovers, and better friends. When you have this, you work very hard to protect it. My true friends and family know me as trustworthy, loyal, and unwavering. . . which is why I try very hard to stay away from over-the-top, extreme ridiculousness. You can have that! I'll just continue to do "me." If you ever meet me, just be yourself and I'll embrace you for that alone.
Saying what you're thinking....