Maria

Maria reflects on the season, and offers some words of advice.

Aug 18, 20090

I feel like there is never going to be a boring 100% calm period in our lives. I am learning to feel grateful for challenge. Whether it is in our jobs or personal relationships. Challenges and difficulties meant to make us grow. Our souls and our hearts. I feel it's not about what the problem is, but how you deal with it. So you learn. Learn to appreciate it and embrace it.

I feel for everyone (my friends) on the show. I feel for Lina and George, they are trying and this is admirable. I wish there was someone to REALLY help them figure it all out. I wonder if we can fully UNDERSTAND each other. I felt frustrated numerous times in my life and relationships where I felt I was from Venus and they were from Mars (book by John Gray) and I really wanted to talk to them using language we both would fully understand. I still do not know if that in fact is a possibility. I am also learning there is not ONE truth — mine of-course, but many. As many as there are people involved in one particular argument (reading my friend's autobiography and learning it on the fly). I wonder why I had to meet this guy just now and not 15 years ago when the realization of multiple truths existence would have saved me so many tears (hey I could use them to add on to the ocean's salt, so global warming would not be a real threat :).  Now I also wonder if I can actually implement this thinking in my life??? Can you ??

I feel for Katrina. I have been asked if I am jealous of her and if that is why I pick on her. I dont think i am jealous. It's just my habit of calling people out on their BS (or what I think is BS) when I see it peek it's ugly face out from under the life's regularity. My kudos for Kat's growing experience. Hey when I was 28 (like Kat now) I made a bunch of mistakes too, that are painful to think of, and boy I am not sure I would want them to be documented in areality TV based way. I really wish more of what's REALLY happening in Kat's head and life was out there. It's a far better learning experience for everyone viewing THAT, then something you can only see when u dig an inch deep.

34 comments
Ta'Ziyah
Ta'Ziyah

Maria,

You're one of the hottest photogs that I have ever laid eyes on! Are you still single, and do you ever show any of your work in Washington, DC?

Nicolette
Nicolette

I love the show it is fun, I hope the show will come back with a new season, but where are the black people with style and class.

Jade
Jade

Please bring back Miami Social. It was so sophisticated and inspiring.....I loved all the characters...please come back.

Viewer
Viewer

i love, love miami social!! please bring back soon!!!! i love bravotv!!!!

Alisha
Alisha

Maria I love the red flower dress you are wearing in the bravo tv promo of the show! Who makes it and where can i find it?

wally rutledge
wally rutledge

when is the new season going to start? great show! would love to meet katrina ,what a knockout!!!!!

MARIANA FROM NORWAY
MARIANA FROM NORWAY

Maria is always so sexy and "femme fatale" like... i love her style and self confidence. Could somebody tell me where to get the shorts she wore when Ariel picked her up for the photo shoot/casting/interview thing? She paired them with a plaid vest... The style of the girls in Miami Social is by far the best! Let me know. Mariana

Viewer
Viewer

Maria, You have a soul and spirit beyond all in the show. I pray you unleash all your talent and treasure...you are empowering and your mind and vision is very real...thank you- stay inspired and strong.

Viewer
Viewer

I really appreciate your positive message. There is a great need for positivism these days, as too often people don't pay close enough attention on the many opportunities they can capitalize on in their lives. My work with clients focus on following their passion, living their dream life and learning to capitalize on opportunities and learning to find that spec of light in make it shine through the dark moments. Keep on inspiring...

CHRISTINE
CHRISTINE

I LOVE THE HOT PINK LIPSTICK, WHAT IS THE NAME AND BRAND, I HAVE BEEN DYING TO KNOW.

Justine
Justine

Maria,

I am a huge fan of the show and I am so glad I read your blogs. I have really been struggling as of late to keep myself going and i'm so glad that you shared your struggles to keep going as well. Sometimes I feel I am the only one who is depressed and struggling because no one EVER talks about that stuff. Thank you for being real and raw through your blog. You have made me feel less alone because of it. I wish they would have shown more of this side of you on the show.

bert
bert

hey ur a pretty mom

Amanda
Amanda

Hi

Your hotpink lipstick is the best! What is it? I thought you were awesome!

kim
kim

Maria, I just love you & your blogs! I will miss watching you on the show & will follow you on your website. You have a great outlook on life & seem to be the most together & real. I wish you much happiness & success in whatever you do.

Kiki
Kiki

Maria, I wish you all the best.....just keep being you...

M Exposed
M Exposed

Hello Katrin, Enjoyed the show....looks like you and your friends are Viva El Dolce!! I do have a question for you. As one photographer to another, I am wondering on how made your photography such a success in a only a matter of 2 years. I understand that its all talent but what else? I know that you must also have personality and all of that, but how dose one get started as a fashion/artist photographer?

Thank you for your time,

Viewer
Viewer

Without the publication of this blog, this side of you would never have been known to me at least, maybe even to the public, since Bravo has to show a side that attracts viewers. I wish those who struggle with depression, suicidal thoughts, etc would read this and watch the show because it would reach them on so many levels. Deep speaks to deep. You have gone through so much pain and now you finally have a large platform. Use it. You have the power to bless many by your presence.

linda
linda

Maria - I felt so sorry for your date. You need to work on your social skills. Have you ever heard of a "conversation". Jeez, the guy was asking you questions, not because he was nosy, but because you had absolutely nothing to say and he was trying to get you to talk about something and all you could say was "nice wall"? A pretty face will only get you so far.

steven
steven

When I asked why you picking on Katina I also complimneted you. I said you were the only sane person in the show. I admire the way you care for your daughter and make sensible decision in life.

all the best enjoyed the show

Dawn
Dawn

Wow! I'm a Bravo junkie and just got into Miami Social later in the season and thought you were very very cool. Now? I KNOW you're incredibly cool. Amazing blog.. with amazing insights and motivations. Just.Wow!

ViewerinChicago
ViewerinChicago

Hola, I don't know if you'll ever read this comment (or anyone's comments on here), but just know that your blogging is truly inspirational and I have a great respect for you. Most people will say that this blog is b.s. but if you didn't write it then who did? People who think blogs like this are insignificant are completely stubborn. Speaking on behalf of a person with many, many issues, blogs like these remind me that people that seem so far away from the ordinary are yet so close in unique ways. Overall, my point is that blogs like these really make me happy in the sense that it makes me that I'm not alone about my thoughts and emotions. Keep up the blogging, will definately be looking foward to more blogs on your actual site =] -ViewerinChicago

Viewer
Viewer

Maria, I really liked you, but there is something I wanted to tell you. It wasn't nice to tell your date he didn't look good. I mean, if you didn't like the way he looked, you shouldn't have gone to meet him. You were rude!

Nancy
Nancy

Great blog! Thanks for taking the time to acknowledge our comments. You are not only intelligent and very beautiful, but down to earth as well.

The best of luck to you and your family!

Viewer
Viewer

WHAT IS THE BEST CAMERA IN YOUR OPINION

Cherrie
Cherrie

Maria, you are by far my favorite on the show. I think that you are real, true, and insightful, and that you want to share your experiences with others. Best of luck to you and your daughter.

Tracy
Tracy

Maria, you are one real person. I am so glad you did the show and gave people a chance to see beauty, strength and realness all in one package! You are a great mom, beautiful woman, and strong person and I just loved watching you. You are a person that has such natural beauty and tastes that it overflows into your work. Keep up your positive energy! I hope to see you in another season!

crystal
crystal

Maria you are the best!!! I just read your blog and im going to tell you that you have encourged me to go and live my life.... I think your a wonderful art director... Im currently in school to become a productive makeup arist and stylist and i would love to work with you sometime in the future.... And you are an awesome mother your daughter is going to be a very well arounded young lady and with a mother like you to support her she will reach her goals and dreams.... hope to see you next season... from one south florida girl to another live each life to the fullest but be smart about it.... once again LOVE YOU....

Suzanne
Suzanne

I love your show and I say your show because I think that you are one of the few on it that has any grasp of reality. You are a very practical, down to earth person and I have to give you your props on being a single parent. Keep up the good work

Jessica
Jessica

Your pictures on your site are beautiful! You must have passion to shoot these. They are phenomenal. Were you a bit high when you started writing this blog. You shifted geears one you moves away from all of the cryptic suicide and stay positive talk. Weird. You are a really amazing writer as well. maybe you should do some writing on style lab.

kenny P
kenny P

Hey!! :D I love you and I am a huge fan of the show. I was wondering if you could give me some advice. I am graduating from college this year from upstate NY and my boyfriend and I may be moving to FL. I know through the show that you are an amazing photographer and I have been trying to dabble in the modeling industry. I am very new and also pretty ignorant to the business at the moment, but I have been told and have even seen that I have charisma and what someone has said "the it". Im not too sure, but I am willing to follow modeling and see where it takes me. Would you bee able to give me advice?

You are so talented and I value your opinion. I know I have things I need to work on, so what do you say? :)

Hope to hear from you soon, and thank you for your time

KP

A
A

You and Mike made me laugh. You are a lovely lady. You make a great mom as well. I enjoyed watching you. Balanced and know how to juggle a busy life. Cheers

Joey C.
Joey C.

Maria: It is time for you to get back out there and start dating. It is very clear to me that you are a very strong women. Having said that it does not mean that you are as Happy as you want to be. With your daughter gone to school I know how very much you miss her but you are giving her the chance to better herself so that she too may become a strong women in this world. I do hope you are able to have more cam calls with her than are shown. Just remember to at all times be true to you, take care of your daughter. If you are true to you and surround yourself with honest people and people who have good energy you too will find someone to share your life with. I look forward to the next season. Live, Laugh, Love, Dance and be a person who makes a difference today for tomorrow will never be.

Peace & Blessing to You & Your daughter.

Ron
Ron

Maria you have a great understanding of your friends. I respect you for "calling out" some of the other "socials" actions. I wish more people would do that. It makes life so much easier to deal with. With your vision and Michael...well being Michael, you two will get your friends on a meaningful path enjoying a stress-free life. Keep going to the (health) club, it helps free you mind. Eat right and exercise smart.

Viewer
Viewer

Maria! Thank you for all that you said here..so heartfelt and true! You are a very special person..take care of yourself and your beautiful daughter...xoxo