Porsha also said she was a Christian, and I have to agree with Phaedra on this one -- going to church doesn’t make you any more of a Christian than going to a strip club makes you a stripper or a sinner! Maybe Kordell thought she would dance like a stripper, because we've all seen that too. I have been in a relationship with the same man longer than any of these ladies have been in their relationships. I don't want to judge Porsha's relationship, because I obviously don't live with them. I can only tell you what these eyes and ears hear and see. I watch the show just like you do, so based off everything I've seen and heard myself, it appears that Kordell is talking to his daughter and not his wife! Porsha can't seem to do much without getting permission from Kordell. This is not my relationship, so if Porsha likes it, I love it, and I really don't give a sh-- what Porsha and Kordell do! I’m entitled to my opinion!