Kathy, I am sure you have suffered enough having to live with that slug of a husband, but I have heard it said by you, that Rosie did not think you accepted her in your heart. I took Teresa's comment to mean, she hoped to get over her problems with her brother the same way you and Rosie did. Didn't Rosie stay away from the family for years. Everyone can see through Shrimpy Slow Joe how he want's to make up with his sister, the way he screamed and cursed at her in front of her kids at your house was just heart warming. The second the cameras went down at the doctors, when he forgot he was still miked up, he started fighting with her again. His parents house was paid off and they let him add his name and take out a giant mortgage on it, who does he think should pay for it. He and your husband are shameful.