Kathy, Your one of my favorites! I love your spunk. You’re so neutering and a loyal friend, sister and person. Rosie is correct-I also feel that you deserve more respect from everyone. You do hold back at times with what you thinking and that is good, because; its not always good to speak out without thinking. I was freaking happy you got up, and spoke out for the AZ trip. You go girl! I think you husband is cool, loves you a lot, and is trying hard to help you. He does kind of turn into a daddy figure. I think it’s because he loves you so much! He's funny. I enjoy seeing the both of you. You’re a good looking woman and you don't seem to know that.