Cast Blog: #RHOC

Heather: Newsflash It's Not All My Fault

Tamra: Lizzie's Obsessed With Me

Shannon Settles the Score

Lizzie: Tamra Doesn't Fight Fair

Heather: Why Hate?

RHOC Reunion GIFs: The Gloves Come Off

Lizzie on That Kentucky Fried Nickname

Shannon on Heather's Double Standard

RHOC Reunion GIFs: Psychics, Opinions, and Shade

Heather Weighs in on the Dinner Party

The Difference Between Shannon and Heather

Lizzie Forgives Tamra

Vicki Wants the Best for Tamra

GIF Recap: RHOC Season 9 Finale

Vicki: I'm Tired of Tamra Causing Problems

Recap: 13 GIF-able Life Lessons from Bali

Tamra: Lizzie Is the Worst Kind of Person

Lizzie: Tamra Has it Out for Me

Shannon: There's No Hope Tamra and I

Tamra: Lizzie's Out for Blood

Heather: Can't Friends Disagree

Lizzie: What Tamra's Doing Isn't Right

GIF Recap: Kayaks, Crowns, and Elephants

Shannon Was Shocked Tamra Would Betray Her

Tamra: I Was a Fool to Defend Vicki

Vicki's Warning to Lizzie

Shannon Isn't Putting Emotions onto Tamra

Lizzie: I Thought Tamra Was My Friend

GIF Recap: Lizzie's Lonely Birthday Dance

Tamra: I'm Going to Be a Tam-ma!

Vicki: This Episode Was Hard to Watch

Heather: I Did Owe Shannon an Apology

Shannon: Tamra Is Stirring the Pot

Lizzie: Tamra Is Stirring Up Sh--

GIF Recap: What Does Tamra Remember?

Vicki Is Trying to Stay Neutral

Shannon: Tamra's Lies Are Mind Boggling

GIF Recap: Lizzie's Dinner Party Disaster

Vicki Advises Shannon to Keep Communication Lines Open

Lizzie: "I Take Sun Kitten Swimwear Very Seriously"

Shannon and David Are Healing Their Marriage

Heather: Newsflash It's Not All My Fault

Heather is shocked by Vicki's cutting comments, but is happy her party and Bali planning went so well.

I love Vicki and we have always had a very good relationship. However, I'm pretty tired of the nasty interview bites thrown in my direction.

Newsflash, it's not ALL my fault and I'm tired of being vilified by this group. Saying that I need a "life event" to rock my world is unconscionable. I have been a supporter of Vicki's when her other friends were not.

This does not mean she has to agree with everything I do or say, but have the nerve to speak to me in person. It's very easy to hide behind the veil of the interview chair. No matter how you feel about me, I'm not throwing shade on the side. I speak directly to the person when there is an issue.

We're going to BALI!!!

Tamra hasn't had a honeymoon, and I'm not getting a 15-year anniversary trip because our husbands are (thankfully) VERY busy. However, what a great excuse to treat ourselves and go on a girls' trip!

My Valentines' Day Party: Yes, I love a party, especially when there's a theme! I had so much fun planning the party. I thought it would be fun to play a game with saucy little questions. When I was doing the research I couldn't believe how many seemingly silly terms there for the most disgusting sexual acts! I can't believe people really do this stuff?!? Not to judge, consenting adults have at it -- but my goodness!!!

Anyway we ended up with some hilarious questions AND answers ... It felt SO good to laugh with everyone and not have any drama .

Until later. . .But you'll have to wait to hear about that!

Dinner with Vicki, Shannon, and Tamra: Tamra and I called Shannon together to invite her for dinner. We wanted to include her on the trip to Bali and needed to make sure we could all move forward.

I didn't want to rehash past events, it seemed like a slippery slope of trying to figure out who said what and why we ended up in this state of arguing.

I brought up Hinduism and breaking cycles because I thought it was relevant to what's been going on in our group, and obviously because Bali is a Hindu country. Why is Vicki making negative comments about this in her interview? I'm trying to make amends and move forward, which is what she wanted me to do! I feel like it doesn't matter WHAT I say, it's never going to be right.

Happily, the dinner ended really well and we are all excited to go to Bali!

Who could of predicted what would take place half way across the globe?

Oy! I didn't see this one coming!

Until next week. . .

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