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Ciara Miller Slams Questions About Her Relationship Progress with West: "I'm Not His"

"I don't like the narrative," the Summer House cast member said while talking about one aspect of her romance with West Wilson. 

By Abby Feiner

Ciara Miller is hitting back at commentary surrounding the pace of her romance with West Wilson.

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On Season 8, Episode 9 of Summer House, which aired on April 18, West turned to Paige DeSorbo and Amanda Batula for advice about his relationship with Ciara as related to their sex life — or lack thereof

"I mean, obviously, we're, like, more than friends at this point," West shared in an interview during the episode. "But after so long, does it become like, there's gotta be a reason for it? She told me she's never dated anyone younger than 35 or something. Not only am I, like, seven years younger than everyone she's dated, but I also just don't have a job. It is a little in the back of my head for sure."

In the Summer House Season 8 After Show video above, West notes that although he had questions about why he and Ciara weren't having sex, he wasn't exactly surprised by it.

"Everyone is very forward about, like, 'Ciara is very traditional. You're gonna have to f-cking work for it. It'll take a long time,'" he says. "But also, she told me that."

"And I obviously didn't want to be the dude who reads like, 'Please f-ck me,'" he continues. "Like, that's the last kind of guy you want to be."

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Ciara Miller slams "narrative" surrounding her sex life with West Wilson

A split of Ciara Miller and West Wilson.

As Ciara explains in the video, she is bothered by the conversation surrounding her physical intimacy with West.

"I don't like the narrative of, like, I'm withholding something from him," she says. "That implies that he's not getting something that's his. I'm not his. It's my body. He's not entitled to my body. He's not entitled to have sex with me. It's a f-cking privilege to have sex with me."

On Summer House Season 8, Episode 7, Ciara explained to Jesse Solomon and Danielle Olivera that she was "not trying to rush into anything" with West.

"I kind of like that we're taking it slow," she said. "We'll have sex when I'm ready."

Press play on the video above to watch Ciara, West, Paige, Amanda, Danielle, and Jesse talk about the subject in the Summer House Season 8 After Show. 

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