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You Won't Believe What Bethenny Frankel Shared About Her Life with Paul Bernon

The RHONY alum shared a sweet update on her fiancé Paul.

By Jocelyn Vena

Bethenny Frankel has not only found the man she wants to spend her life with, but also the man she likes to travel with. And she revealed as much in a recent post on Instagram, in which she also shared some insight into her life with her fiancé, Paul Bernon.

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"Paul and I are off season vacationers who are close to but never involved in the action," The Real Housewives of New York City alum wrote. "We hate crowds and plans but like people watching and being able to observe and dip in and out of anything seemingly social. We walk on the beach at 8AM to avoid human contact, leave the pool once the day club vibe starts, and get dinner at 7 PM because we hate the pressure of a reservation. Find someone with similar travel goals and style as you…"

Timed around Valentine's Day, Bethenny posted several photos in a carousel from her life with Paul that also included snapshots of her daughter as well as her pets.

She posted a poignant message alongside the pics, writing, "Many people are not having a good day. There is so much tragedy in the world and you personally may not be as happy as you want to be, today or overall. We can’t all align with the Hallmark holidays, so just accept where you are and ignore the pressure of a holiday that makes many people feel lonely and sad. I’m neither of those things but still, it’s been a weird day despite having so much love in my life. Accept where you are, love yourself, get a good night’s sleep, avoid mainlining chocolate or alcohol, and hopefully all will be well. Whether you’re in a relationship or single you are absolutely not alone and are loved. I am very lucky and forever grateful for this life and for you." 

Of course, when Bethenny isn't traveling with Paul, she's spending plenty of quality time with her daughter, Bryn. In fact, the mother-daughter duo frequently travel together. And, recently Bethenny shared a sweet update about how much her life has changed since becoming a mom.

"So …. while Turtle Time in my last chapter was a blast, this is my favorite Turtle Time. I’ve made significant changes in my business and personal life to improve my emotional, physical and spiritual well-being and I’m really happy. I’m doing it all my way and I do have that balance, which is the true meaning of success. I am very grateful to this little girl, to myself for never settling and staying true to myself, and to you for coming with me on this adventure," she wrote. "I learn more than you know from you every day, and it grows deeper with time."

That brings us back to Bethenny and Paul, who have been engaged since 2021. When Bethenny appeared on Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen she confessed that “I don’t know when we’ll get married. I’m happily in a partnership, and I love him so much, but I don’t want to plan a wedding.”

For now, they are happily engaged and traveling the world together.

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