After thinking and watching last night's eposide, I can’t believe that Luann is in such denial. How can someone be that head strong just to find a man to get married at this stage of life...the second or third time around? I would think that from past experiences women would learn.
I am not preaching, because obviously I have had my own share of experiences, and all experiences are different. But that being said, if my friend knew what my fiancé was doing at the time I was engaged and I was told that he had close relations with friends of mine just weeks prior to my engagement, I would say OMG, this is a red flag!
These are facts, not lies and not exaggerations, and yes, I thought that I should be able to tell Luann. But she doesn’t have the capibility to listen! She shut it down and turned it around. The fact that she completely took the conversation to mean that I was jealous? I mean, like really? Jealous? Not a word in my vocabulary! Really? What would I be jealous of? I have never had a problem meeting men. Since my early 20s I've been the date queen! Yes, that is what friends have called me.
But Luann always seems so desperate for the attention, for the support, for the reassurance that a man is interested in her. So maybe that is why she chooses not to listen and learn about what Tom has been up to? She cut me off and cut me down to the point that truly I am not interested again in telling her like it is. I guess she will find out herself…