#Yaaass she's here! The queen bee is in the building, and ready to check your pulse as you become Married to Medicine. Why am I the Queen B you ask? Let's explore: I am sassy soccer mom, saucy doctor's wife, savvy entrepreneur and sophisticated socialite. Yes I am definitely the queen B. B as in boss, business, bold, beautiful and best!
As you can see I am extremely versatile and the only one with the capability and patience to bring all these women from different walks of life together. I love my time with my friends because each of them are very different and offer a unique perspective. A fab, fun, fabulous wife (my Quad), a relatable working mom (Dr. Simone), a polished professional (Dr. Jackie), a sexy socialite (Kari), and a snug stay-at-home mom (Toya).
Let me be clear, being married to medicine is no easy feat. It really is #deep. and the stress and sacrifice can cause you to have some serious heart palpitations -- if you don't deal with all in small doses. So, surrounding yourself with others who are familiar with the sacrifices of the medical lifestyle is essential.
Bringing all the ladies together to celebrate my birthday was extremely important to me. I thought it would be the perfect opportunity to integrate my friends. I imagined we were all mature and opened-minded enough to accept one another for our similarities as well as our differences.
I was wrong. The way the ladies treated my best friend Quad was absolutely unacceptable. She is no one's project, pet, or push-over, and she definitely isn't crazy. She is an educated accomplished woman in her own right, who deserves to be respected as such, and did you notice how she #pushedthru with big fabulous gifts for her BFF. #yaaass #hontey I live for Mrs. Quad! Those ladies better #ThrowUpTheirLives and #FallBackJack when it comes to my Quad!
I was also bothered by the energy that Dr. Simone and Dr. Jackie brought to my home. It was very arrogant and rude, and I wanted to #gag on my special day. Many of the women in attendance were physicians, attorneys, and professionals and even if they weren't they are my friends, family and guests, and came to celebrate me. They did not come to be anti-social, stuffy, stuck-up, stiff, snobby, condescending, and catty about panty hose and pumps. It was my birthday celebration right?
Kari suggested that I like to surround myself with women that look up to me. Well as the nucleus of this group I thank you for the compliment Mrs. Kari. I hope you take a page from my book and become more Inspiring, as my name MARIAH is an acronym for (M)aking (A)spirations (R)ise (I)n (A)ll (H)umanities.
After watching this episode, I really feel the need to say that it doesn't matter where you come from, but where you are going. Nothing bothers me more than seeing someone being judged for beating the odds, and not becoming a product of their environment. Especially, when all of us have overcome similar challenges. I understand the struggle all to well. I've lived it. I just can't seem to comprehend why others deem it necessary, to constantly build themselves up by tearing others down. When you live a life judging others, demeaning and diminishing others, there is a deeper cause, and raises the question of why? Is your life not fulfilling? Are you not being the best you?
It really doesn't matter how much money you have or how many letters you have behind your name, if you are not happy with yourself, you cannot live your best life! I am living my best life by bringing people together. I am happy. I am real. I am every woman, I am Mariah HuQ and as you continue to watch you will understand why I am and will always be the Queen Bee! #CheckYourEmail!