Quad's Jury Is Still Out

Quad gives you a lesson in psychiatry and has some choice words about what Toya and Kari see in the mirror.

Hello Bravo bunnies! Welcome to Quad's world blog by Bravo. Thanks for tuning in to the premiere of Married to Medicine. I'm sure you were thoroughly entertained. Now with that being said, let's talk about episode one. I was very excited to celebrate Mariah's birthday. But clearly that was not the case. From the moment I walked in, I noticed that Toya and Dr. Jackie were giving me nasty looks like a pit bull on a bone. That normally happens when I'm around insecure women. #Quadsbeauty

Jackie asked if I was from another country. Didn't she get the memorandum? #Quadsworld.

Up next is Kari. From the beginning she introduced herself that evening by undermining my husband's title. I'm not sure what she was trying to achieve with that comment but I am positive she was left with egg on her face. The extra protein could be used to smooth out some of those wrinkles around the mandible and the neck. #smilelines #oldlady #rooster Need I say more.

While there's nothing wrong with being a Psychologist, my husband practices Psychiatry having completed a dual residency in Psychiatry and Internal Medicine at Duke.

So Kari, since it appears you don't know the difference and I'm not sure you have a degree, let me educate you.

Psychologists: have a graduate degree, usually a PhD or a MA but, not an MD.

Psychiatrists: have an MD, are authorized to prescribe medication, conduct physical examinations, order and interpret laboratory tests, and may order brain imaging studies such as a CT or CAT scan, MRI or PET scanning.

So, now Kari has been schooled. This has been another class in #Quad101. My husband has worked hard and sacrificed many years of his life. He deserves to be properly addressed.

After she was nicking at my heels, and I scratched back "claws" she now doesn't want to invite me to my best friend's husband's party and she feels that she has the authority to do so, since it will be held at her house. She has no idea that Mariah will change the venue if it means me not attending. So, if she wants financial backing it's best she keep her mouth closed and shell out the invitation.

Moving on to treacherous Toya. She would like people to believe that she declined the invitation to my wedding. But, truth be told I was reluctant to send her one in the first place. It was my husband and Mariah, one in my left ear and the other in my right ear, begging me to send her an invitation. They thought it would be the right thing to do. WRONG! We are not friends. She wanted to be invited to my wedding so badly that she would have ran valet for the evening and I mean that literally. #trackstar

Personally, I wouldn't let Toya park a car, serve a cocktail, or bus a table at my wedding. When you are getting married it's more than just an event. You want people around who support your union, someone who really has your best interest at heart and since she held onto a text message and brought it up three months after I was married she is clearly making my point that she is malicious, manipulative, messy, and menstruating. #bloodymary

She tried to confront me by saying "Who would marry a man who would call off a wedding?" How dare she? That's the pot calling the kettle black. Her wedding was called off too! #catchthatdirt

Unlike Toya I did not have to devise a scheme to get a home or a husband. I meet my husband by chance while shopping for groceries. She on the other hand, pulled a desperate move by shopping for a husband speed dating, LMAO.

In referring to me, Toya said she can see ghetto a mile away. Hontey, she can see ghetto in her compact mirror.

As for Dr. Simone, I will give her a pass because her friend, Dr. Jackie is already slaying her. #toreuponnationaltelevision, #formerbusinesspartner, #frienemy

Dr. Jackie. . .to be continued #jurydeliberation, #thejuryisoutuntilifillemin

As for my husband and I, we have our flaws and imperfections but we are living and loving our lives together. Welcome to Married to Medicine.

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Simone: Yes, I'm Still Angry with Toya

Simone says she's not a fence rider and thinks Toya lacks the "intellect" and "maturity" to be on Married to Medicine.

Whew! We made it through Reunion still alive and in one piece, but just barely. Mysteries remain intact, questions were left unaswered, old friendships were severed forever and some new friendships just couldn't get off the ground.  Where in the world does this mess leave this group?

I truly believe Married to Medicine has something to offer America. Right now, we are the only show with seven married African American couples who also happen to have seven doctorates. Our young Black America needs to see more of this on TV, not fighting, murders, scandals or mistresses. We have shown everything life has to offer, the good, the bad and everything in between. A few of you have been so quick to criticize our behavior but realistically, everyone walking this earth experiences difficulties in relationships. And everyone has reacted or overreacted to a situation. Surely no one can should assume that a doctorate changes human nature or human responses.

Some of you swear you would never act like some of us, but I know you have behaved poorly behind closed doors. We chose to open the door and let the camera in. The scenarios in life are all the same, the only difference between my life and yours are the people in it!

It was difficult AGAIN to witness Toya telling a lie about her intent to fight me in front of my son AFTER calling me a bad mother.  It is sad that she can throw jabs and insults on the lowest levels but can not handle them in return. She doesn't have the self control, intellect or maturity to be on a show called Married to Medicine.  I am so sure she would fit in quite well on some other shows which I will not name for you today. (This is pure shade and yes, I'm still angry with her.)

I must share some final thoughts on Quad and Mariah, even though I know you're tired of beating a dead horse.  I did not say much on the Reunion after Toya lunged "to give me a hug" because I felt some of the ladies couldn't handle others' opinions about them even though they're quick to offer their own opinions about me.

In Quad's opinion, I am a fence rider. Let me make myself and my intent for Quad and Mariah's issues very clear. The ONLY thing I ever wanted for them was peace and friendship. If we couldn't have that, I wanted civility for the entire cast! Every lady on this show was a vital part of it. In my angriest moments this Season, I could still be in Toya's presence. Didn't want to talk to or sit near her but I never refused to attend an event because she was coming. Even after she tried to fight me at the Reunion, I continued to film with and was civil towards her. Hint: it’s called being mature.  In real life, you must be cordial to your co-workers even when you don’t like them.

Let me also make this point: anyone who thinks in her head she is more important, more revelant or better than anyone else on this show has the game all twisted and played wrong. It has truly been the combination of many factors and faces that contribute to the success of this show.

The biggest factor of them all is YOU, the fans. Without you willing to tune in each week at various times (and now different days) and share your thoughts and opinions on social media, it would not be possible to share Married to Medicine with the world. I thank you so much!

It was an interesting Season to say the least. I'm glad it's over and I'm curious about the future. Take care until . . .

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