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    Waiting on Toya and Mariah's Truth

    Dr. Simone is disappointed by the ladies' behavior and thinks this isn't the Mariah she knows.

    Apr 12

    The doctor is in and deeply saddened by tonight's events.

    The show started out great with Dr. Jackie performing a surgery on one of her patients. For medical students and residents, this is what you can expect when you start practicing medicine. Surgery is a very exciting part of our job and it is always a blessing when the surgery is a success.

    It was fun to go to Life Fit Studio and joke around with Dr. Jackie and her trainer, Alec. I worked out at the studio for a few weeks, but Alec is too tough for me (plus I hate working out!). Dr. Jackie loves to work out, and she is very serious when it comes to her workout. She put me out of the studio, but trust me, I was leaving really soon.

    Going to the cigar store was an experience for me. I went with Toya to get a gift for Dr. Aydin and Dr. Duncan. She is a real cigar smoker and was excited about smoking a cigar, choosing a gift, and talking about what was going on with the ladies. As I mentioned to Toya, I believe Quad gets emotional after Mariah talks about what is going on with the ladies. I hate to see Quad upset by others' petty behavior.

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    trinibelle001 5 pts

    Why are ppl on the show so upset w/ Mariah? True - the confrontation should have waited. But honestly, Toya need to get hair wig snapped. Leave the kids out of your mouth. Toya is messy and Kari...pls. Kari is thirsty. She was never a true friend of Mariah and will never be b/c she wants to be the Queen of Medicinal Wives.  Dr. Simone, I love that you told Toya she needs to own up and take responsibility, BUT SHE DIDN'T and you all gave her a break. Team Mariah, honey!

    Mrscolemanthomas 5 pts

    Dr. Simone play your part! I think if fits you perfectly! Keep it real with those ladies because they need it!

    chocobliss 98 pts

    Dr. Simone atleast try to mind your own business... I mean really... Who do you think you are... You saw it all as you were right there... Toya is wrong on so many levels and she slipped up and admitted to starting this whole thing... Mama Lucy tore into Toya as she should have but she should have just come out with what was bothering her instead of the whole song and dance routine... Okay Mariah was late but there were so many people riding with her so please keep that in mind... That party was boring as hell... I like you and respect you but please stop talking so much and help those who pay you for help, your patients not your friends... Oh and you are not fat :-)

    Neicy 19 pts

    Dr. Simone, I know it seems that you like drama but you have got to stay out of this one. I would like to see more about your great life and what you represent or what you want to represent – your passion or love to leave generations. I am waiting on the real Simone to show up.

    tlbharris 85 pts

    Dr. Simmone,

     

    Although you didn't get into a cat fight your behavior was not so good either.  You talked about Mariah until she got there, you talked about Mariah to her friends (very tacky), and you were loud.  Stay off the booze, so you can see clearly.

    Idalis_1 49 pts

    I think your head is half way up your a*s - half way, cuz that God complex makes it too big to fit!  The scenes between you and your husband were embarrassing - could you be more disrespectful.  You need to bring it down a notch cuz being a doctor doesn't make you perfect!

    gjsimon3256@gmail.com 467 pts

    Actually Toya started this fight.  She confronted Mariah about her mother and started touching Mariah's hair.  At this point, Mariah was listening to what she was saying about her Mother.  Next, Mariah started  touching Toya's hair.  Toya did not like her touching her hair, but it was okay for her to touch Mariah's hair. Then Toya  threw a drink in  Mariah's face.  Toya is very sneaky and wants to blame this on Mariah which is not right.  I saw Toya through the first blow, but miss Mariah.  Yes maybe Mariah should have walked away.  But her emotions got the best of her.

    charlie@company 692 pts

    Love you on the show Dr. Simone, as you & Dr. Jackie bring balance to this show.....especially in portraying what real strong & educated Black Women do w/their time & talents!!!! Mariah, Quad, & Toya would be better cast on "RHOA" or "Basketball Wives"!!!! But @ least Quad has a career going for her....I'll give her that & she really is a sweet & funny girl!!!! Mariah & Toya are straight-up hood who married-up & all they care about is keeping up appearances & w/the Jones!!!!

    loejj77 93 pts

    Dr. Simone....I always enjoy watching you. You are always the voice of reason. Jackie's cool, but she doesn't seem genuine. I'm  not sure what it is with her, but..... Anyway, I agree with you 100%; I fault Mariah for letting her emotions get the best of her. But, Toya alligator mouth wrote her a check her mockingbird butt couldn't cash. In the words of comedian Kevin Hart, "she gonna learn today." And, Toya did. I believe Kari is shady as hell, because I thought I heard her say, "push her in the pool." Fake as a $12 bill, but she'll get hers too. Again, I love you on the show as the voice of reason. Real talk!

    urbantangles1 7 pts

    If anyone reads your side of this episode, they would understand that the party wasn't fun!  If Kari's guests and Mariah's guests weren't mingling....I wonder WHY.  We are in the dirty south!  Your efforts to try to bring the guests together deserves an applause!  You didn't do anything wrong!  Continue to be and do you!  

    urbantangles1 7 pts

    I am reading these comments and my mouth is WIDE open!  WOW is all I can say!  

     

    urbantangles1 7 pts

    Dr. Simone, you are definitely my favorite!  You are good balance in my opinion for this group.  I love your personality!  You truly hold your own!  

    kimkat1231 5 pts

    After reading some of the comments, I am going to be more sympathetic with Mariah.  I thought it was tacky to be late and announce that you were present like you were doing people a favor by showing up.  That was rude and very inconsiderate to Keri as well.  But I believe that the party should have been the main focus and the drama should have waited until an appropriate time/place.  But Momma Lucy (like Momma Dee on Love & Hip Hop AtL) was a hardcore troublemaker.  Mama Lucy should have been trying to stop the fight rather than egging it on.  How immature and street!  Mariah is going to lose her husband like all the other reality wives and that is going to be sad.  And the little girl of Mariah's  should have her aunt to thank ffor bringing the subject of adoption up on TV. 

    gibsontara34 701 pts

     kimkat1231 you obviously didn't see the first time it was brought up on tv - by TOYA who spoke about it with her husband!

    Kizzybell 5 pts

    I'm laughing at some of these comments.. Dr. Simmone took her in the bathroom because she had no one else.. if you watched the fight Tota was being hit by 3 people why would you put them both out when 3 people are on her that's asking for even more trouble in your front yard.. now they both were wrong for fighting in someone else's home like kids...

    pretty1908 50 pts

    I find you to be very pretentious and ignorant. Who talk about the host to their guests? Who stirs the pot when people are visibily uncomfortable and irritated? Dr. Tacky Simone, I was riding with you and jackie to make this show positive, but you are no different from booty lipped kari. You talk a good game, but you are as classy as a pig.

    bedeeva_325 5 pts

     pretty1908 I"m with you .....

    tlbharris 85 pts

     pretty1908 ,

     

    I am glad someone saw what I saw. 

    logan_1 38 pts

    You are my favorite!  Does not matter who said what, you never strike another person. enough said

    Dei 28 pts

    The one common factor in all that has taken place in this matter is Toya. She is a disrupter and trouble maker. I do not see her as a beautiful wife or person. From what I have witness so far from this woman is that she is trouble and, a pure mess. I honestly believe that Mariah was late because when she heard all that gossip about Toya, she honestly did not want to be there. But, she went and Mariah did the best that she could to stay away from Toya and have a good time (at that sorry party that Kari did). But, Toya came to her anyway.. Mariah even said out of her own mouth that "she was too pretty tonight to deal with that mess" ( I am paraphrasing). That was not enough for Toya because she kept going. For Toya to blame Mariah for twisting her hair as a means to throw a drink in her face is a cop out and it shows that she does not accept responsibility for her behavior. A person can only be pushed so far until they snap and that goes for anybody and having a drink thrown in your face on top possibly spreading personal business about a little girl. Was just too much.. It would be for a lot of people.

    missveronica20 38 pts

    I agree completley. People keep forgetting Toya also started crap with Quad for no reason. I think its sad that just because Mariah didnt take Toya's ish, shes wrong. And yes. I do believe both women shouldve walked away however remeber they are still humans. @Dei

    Daisyatl 481 pts

    Dr Simone you are a lot of fun and I can definately see how working in your office would be enjoyable but girl you gotta a biggggg mouth, literally and figuritively! Why dont you listen instead of talking so much all of the time! LOL I like you though and find you very funny on the show you seem like cool people!

    Huneydelicious1 53 pts

    It simply wasn't the time or place for that particular conversation. Toya should've addressed Mariah the following day or some other time. I do not think that Mariah should have been the only person escorted out of the party. Smh.......

    MyE 164 pts

    She really had the wool pulled over my eyes..

    9japride 756 pts

    @MyE It's sad how they do that :(

    deedeekid 235 pts

    Dr. Simone, I'm sure your intentions were well meaning but unfortunately, instead of helping the situation you came off as a "pot stirer". As a perdfessional Party Planner and Wedding Consultant, It was apparent from watching the show that Kari doesn't know how to throw a party and they should have hired a party planner instead of winging it as they did for a formal party of that size.  They had no intertainment for 2 hours that everyone had to stand around and wait for that was rather anti-climatic.  Apparently the only food that was served was the lettuce that Kari was eating. No one was seen with even an appitizer!  This party was more about Kari than the husbands or the comfort of their guests.  Kari couldn't even lower herself to thank people for their compliments!  Mariah was out of line for being so late to her own party but it wasn't your place (an invited guest) to go around talking about your absent hostess behind her back to her other guests! Everyone behaved at best, inappropriately. This party was domed for failer from it's conception!

    syreeta1 23 pts

    Dr. Simone, I really liked you from the start, but you were sooo wrong at the party, now who goes around talking about the host at their party, it was her party and if she was late that was between her and fake Kari. You got tispy and got people all up in arms when they were talking amonst themselves, SHAME ON YOU-ten times.. Then you take the mean girl in the bathroom and gives her a pity party really!!! Dr. Jackie right you are kinda messy yourself.. Stop taking sides with that Gettho Detroit hater.. She trying to build a house like Mariah, girl please get a job and a life.. Dr. Simone, I hope you redeem yourself, cause I do like you, just not your actions.

    crystalsterling1 184 pts

    Dr. Simone I like you, you seem down to earth and just because you're a Dr. you still keep it real and show us that you still a bit ghetto. lol.(bringing your own vodko) But I do think that you was kind of wrong with handling the situation of Mariah being late for her party, as a friend you could've just mingle with her guest and than mention to her at a later time about her tardiness not her guests.

    yolsmoo87 271 pts

    Hopefully,  you can talk some sense into Mariah and Toya for a long time because they both have embarrassed the title Doctors Wives.

    Cali83 48 pts

    Dr. Simone when I first seen you on Married to Medicine I said cool a down to earth Doctor who likes to laugh, drink, and who is not stuck up. But on Sunday's episode you were clearly being two face. You talked about Mariah and Quad to Toya. That wasn't cool at all. I'm so glad Dr. Jackie stays out of the mess that's going on. I hope you will redeem yourself after Sunday's episode that wasn't a good look at all.

    Pottymo13 515 pts

    Maybe if you and Dr. Jackie would step up to the plate a bit more and help guide these ghetto queens, maybe we could get  a little more positive satisfaction out of the show. How about it?

    MrLeeMorris 7 pts

    Dr. Simone is my girl.  Love love love how she is slick with your words.    

    Clee2 148 pts

    Dr. Simone is messy too and she's not the brightest bulb in box or the sharpest knife in the drawer.  None of you could survive in DC.  I'm glad all that drama and classLESS is in Atlanta where it belongs.  All of you need to come off of your high horses. 

    Daisyatl 481 pts

     Clee2

     Girl you said that right, only in Atlanta! LOL

    Ringaroundeye1 115 pts

    I kinda like you but I have doubts about trusting you just yet.....A comment you made at the party makes me know that you are not to elevated from throwing a left hook of a jab when someone offends you.

    Disyuh 247 pts

    Why wait for them to tell the truth .. you was right there ...your  are real messy huh ... lol

    breezie_bre 531 pts

    I must say the first episode you had me fooled I was thinking that you were classy like Dr. Jackie but now seeing you is like seeing someone else totally different. This episode you had quite a lot to say about everyone and how they were behaving but the main person that you should have been talking about is yourself you were loud and it seemed like you were ready for the drama to happen everyone knew that Mariah was late there was no need to go in and continuously talk about her lateness to her guest the only thing that was missing was your bringing your own Vodka bottle

    Cali83 48 pts

    @breezie_bre My mother said the same thing. I thought Dr. Simone was classy.

    MyE 164 pts

    I totally agree with you. She really had the wool pulled over my eyes. I think she had one too many glasses of Vodka before she got to the party because her behavior was really questionable.  

    Jazz25 33 pts

    Simone, you are constantly commenting on other peoples behavior. Your behavior on last nights episode was totally out of line. You were continuously trying to "stir the pot" by telling everyone how late Mirah was and telling her guest they should say something to her. You were talking behind her back. I thought you were boisterous, rude, immature and catty. I noticed how you did not make one comment about your behavior, you should go back and look at the episode again. SHAME ON YOU!!!

    GaPeach88 161 pts

    You forgot to write in your blog that you are messy and like to stir the pot.

    bsbfankaren 1964 pts

    I found your behavior leading up to the fight, rather undignified at times, highly questionable. Why add flame to the fire by yelling things about Mariah being late, rather than simply enjoying the party....even though it really wasn't much of one.  Seriously, as fun as it will be to blame Mariah and Toya for what happened, I think you should take some blame as well for your own seriously catty behavior.

    Whatnow 495 pts

    Please socially distance yourself from Mariah, Quad & Toya. Otherwise, you will be displaced into their category.

    SFViewer 279 pts

    You are the most beautiful -- inside and out -- on this show. Thanks for keeping it real.

    classie2222 109 pts

    Dr. Simone - here's the deal, your words and your behavior does not match up right now, as it applies to this episode. I adore you as a beautiful Black female professional, as I am one myself. But, in this episode (based on what was aired) - you did a little too much lip service. My instincts are telling me that  you are closer with Toya and that's fine, but, stay neutral in these type situations. REMEMBER : All eyes are on you and Dr. Jackie (even though the wives fight for air time). You two have healthy friendships and healthy homes -  many others are striving to be like you guys.So be mindful of how you carry yourself with the women you have surrounded yourself with. ~~ Hurt people, hurt people~~