Toya Bush-Harris

Toya thinks that Quad doesn't understand the ramifications of her actions because she isn't a mother.

on May 19, 20130

So excited for my family visiting! Eugene and I both decided to start our family in Atlanta, but at the expense of not having our immediate family close. Our families live hours away, and we try to show them how much we love and miss them every time they visit. Our mothers are both very protective and take every opportunity to express how proud they are of us. Cooking a gourmet meal with the help of Chef Chris turned out fabulous. We made it a point to keep negativity away from our household and conversations. I will not waste precious time with my family discussing petty drama.

Lucy, aka Carrie Lightfoot, aka Mariah's mom talking in such a negative way about myself and Kari as if they're perfect and without judgement is terrible. Perfect people don't have to take on a new name or identity. You would think the fighting was enough. Mariah and I both are very ashamed of the situation and hopefully we will continue to keep negative people and their opinions at arms reach. We are mothers, wives, Christians, and examples for others to follow, so let's act like it. Seriously, I'm getting mad at how much they continue to discuss her daughter's situation. It needs to stop! One compliment, one innocent comment does not warrant a whole season of discussion.

I'm sorry Jackie and Simone continue to be forced to deal with the immature cattiness.  The WOW Grand Opening was a beautiful success and deserved nothing but positivity. But I commend them for their efforts once again of bringing everyone together. I think Simone and Jackie are starting to see that in this circle, even an apology isn't enough and some people just love drama. High school behavior in adults is just ridiculous and it makes you wonder why some people find it entertaining. I think a lesson in adult friendships is necessary all around!

296 comments
bramegirl@yahoo.com
bramegirl@yahoo.com

Tacky Toya stop the madness and the lies you will never be Queen Bee get yo life boo in my Tamar Braxton voice

Lee12177
Lee12177

Toya I love you I hope to see u next season

TacomaB123
TacomaB123

Toya, your story just proved your LIE!  You say you got caught up in a road block and did not take a sobriety test.  You then said that you got it dismissed to reckless driving!!!  How the hell you go from just being in an "innocent" road check to getting a reckless driving charge.  That is false, my dear, and you think we are that stupid.

queen54
queen54

I think Toya is trying to make a name for self. She is trying to have the spot light. Toya do something about your hair and make-up. Honey you talked about MS. QUAD but MS. QUAD has her make-up done well and her hair is fantasy.

2TAYLOR
2TAYLOR

Toya, girl you keep doing the damn thing and forget about those wacky B's. I mean you are a bad sister. You holding it up against two of them by yourself. Please come back to the show.

Ingersharay
Ingersharay

I guess I just don't understand once again, why women have to constantly rip Each other apart in the worse ways. All of these women now have a good life Even if they didn't have one in the past. They got good husbands who love them. Still everything is a issue. And doesn't matter how much money they have, or how big the house is There is always some underline jealousy when it comes to these women. Why??? Why can't they support one another and be happy for one another????

airtonya
airtonya

This should be a valuable lesson for all women in the future. Don't be so quick to label everyone your "friend" . Because if Toya really felt like Mariah was a true friend she wouldn't have been so quick to talk out Mariah's private business without her being present. Okay, she can tell her husband in confidence, however my husband is a real man and he wouldn't even repeated such a personal matter that didnt envolve him personally. Yes, Aidan was a real man for adopting his wife's daughter. Eugene could probably learn something from Aidan. Because unlike Eugene , Aidan didnt call Toya out her name after the fight.

carolanna
carolanna

Toya, I don't know what show some if these folks look at. Your husband mentioned the adoption at the "party on the docks" but it wasn't malicious. It was actually a compliment. You had every right to snatch mama Lucy's wig off her head for talking mess to you at that party. Give respect to get respect.

bsailors
bsailors

You don't like Quad taking about your family but, you did the same to Mariah family her husband is so upset about the whole thing these so call Dr's don't even try to help. Also you and your husband laughed when you unvited Mariah to the holloween party and her kids were very hurt. 

sha_1
sha_1

So I am supposed to believe Quad is lying on you?? YOU...who has been lying, backstabbing,running your mouth & talking sh** since the show started. Quad may be allot of things...but she does not strike me as a LIAR. YOU, however have proven to be a recurring liar...so forgive me if I don't by your "story". You were DRUNK, or at least tipsy... your husband's a Dr. ... he didn't need the bad publicity, so you got with your lawyer & did what was needed to take care of it. I'm not even judging you for it, hey whatever... unfortunately you missed the point! When Quad said it...That stung didn't it? The point was this... CLOSE YOUR DAMN MOUTH...as you can now see...the situation itself is hurtful enough. No one wants, or needs somebody bringing it up, or throwing it back up in their face. You were wrong for what you did to Quad...so you take that medicine...and lay your ass down for a little bit. 

WandaP
WandaP

Everyone says ur thrown shade at poor MIriah, please that woman is the professed queen b of pure shade.. seems lots gossiping in Atlanta, but no real accountability. It's rather silly that Bravo seems to glom on to gossip, and shade. Then the good I hope you all do in your community's .. It was clear Miriah had plans to not forgive ( it's YOUR lie, not to tell your child the truth, no one else's) at the Indian Sari party, so I'm glad you didn't go! .. Tired of her proclaiming her the queen of everything, like she gave birth to the concept of being a doctors wife.. Queens don't have to beg for followers, they follow out adoration, not because she says so?

TheCC
TheCC

I'm sorry but Toya was throwing shade at Mariah from the first episode and it's obvious because she's envious she states "I want a big house too, look at all that Mariah has and Aydin has to deal with, cause you know Mariah is a lot"....she is the person looking in the glass while still trying to throw stones at it. Girl you want to be right where Mariah is it seems. Like your husband said "Do we have to talk about Mariah AGAIN? lol he's calling you out on it as well...LISTEN to your fine man!

Lyricg1
Lyricg1

DELUSIONAL! Are you watching Married to Medicine? 1st you are doing the same thing spreading lies about the other ladies. In the honorable words of my girl Nene Leakes if you and Kari did not want Mariah & Quad at your events instead of saying it was about business a real BITCH oh that's right a real DARLING would have said because I don't want to invite you....lmbo. You should have never apologize to Mariah because you never liked her and you were being fake. You said that Quad was out to hurt you and your family. Well what are you doing to theirs. How is being arrested an innocent harmless situation? DELUSIONAL!! Toya you did this show for COINS.So deal with the mess you have created as an adult. Maybe the next YOU and your husband red scarf oh I mean ascot. Will think about your children before COINS. CATCH

rosyposy
rosyposy

You and this entire cast are pretty much a hot mess.  You cannot help it if you were brought up to fight at social functions like a ghetto gal,  but all of you are adult enough now to know better.  It is not just you.  Mariah is at fault also.  Learn to act with a little dignity and walk away from such situations.

lawstudent1
lawstudent1

Toya it's unfortunate that you have such a jealous heart against your sister. It appears as if you have the attitude that you should be the only one to be blessed to married a privileged man. It's as if you don't want to see anyone with anything but yourself. I am truly surprised.

FlutterBy
FlutterBy

Toya...people who don't drink and drive, do not need attorneys present to take a sobriety test,,,nor do they refuse a sobriety check risking arrest....till I read your blog...I thought Quad was a little too vindictive...however....that opinion has changed....you "just" did get arrested ?? What irony...girlfriend you need to step away from denial, and get off the road being impaired...it might be my loved one coming toward you on the highway....I have zero tolerance for driving while impaired....

overthetop
overthetop

not only did you gossip about her daughter, but you continued to demean her on your interview.  "I married before I had my baby,".as if you are somehow superior than the women who did not get married before procreating.  You did not know her circumstance or any of the countless women you judged.  That comment alone confirmed you were indeed speaking about her child's paternity out of malice. 

Bravofn
Bravofn

Toya - love you - beautiful inside and out. 

You were attacked - physically and verbally. 

Those 2 big-mouths do nothing for this show.  They only want to back-stab you instead of focus on their own families and lives. 

Militarybrat
Militarybrat

Toya don't pay attention to these haters, they don't pay your bills. They kept brining up Mariah's secret when no longer a secret. Come on peeps move forward and stop bringing up the past. Leave the past behind, let's make peace here. Gosh..Dr. Jackie was right this war will never come to an end.

Militarybrat
Militarybrat

The bad apples and bad snakes in the show are Mariah & Quad. The show will gain more and more viewers if the 2 troublemakers be kicked to the curb.

NOwaygirl
NOwaygirl

Toya is Queen of the victims.  She instigated and STARTED THE FIGHT but acted all season like it was Mariah who did.  We saw the footage!  You touched her hair, she touched yours back.  You flipped her hand away, she flipped yours back too.  You threw a glass at her face and she punched, and you punched back.  NO WOMAN would react any differently to a glass being thrown at their face.  What I hated the most though, was how fake you were all season.  You are NOT a victim, you were the main person starting stuff.  You couldn't have a single conversation, even with your family from out of town without bringing up Mariah.

misbehavin911
misbehavin911

I really believe Married to Medicine will lose a lot of viewers next season if Toya and Kari return. I feel replacing them with respectable and classy ladies would do the show a world of good. If the bad apples (Toya & Kari) stay I feel they will hurt the show int the long run. Toya needs get a side job to help her husband pay for the house since she may be losing income that come from Married to Medicine

EjadeS
EjadeS

Mariah is very immature & looking for camera time. She has spoken more about her daughter being adopted then anyone. She gave it life & turned it into an issue. Otherwise no one would have given it any attention. Her & Quad LOVE drama & if there is none they look to create it. I happen to love you & Kari & the other ladies (minus Quad & Mariah). They look desperate with their behavior & smack talk. VERY IMMATURE & CHILDISH! Mariah is damaging her child by having her come up to you & the pups event etc. Shame on her! I feel sorry for her husband.

Kait.Loves.RHW
Kait.Loves.RHW

Girl, you have some serious soul searching to do. No one is perfect but ou continuously play the victim card over and over. You obviously fought mMariah just like she fought you and now everyone can see it on Bravo. So don't act like he flipped out, you threw a glass at her. That's example number one of how you play the victim. Secondly, you mislead Kari into thinkin Quad came at you in your lunch date when you clearly came at her just as much. Stop bein so cruel just because you are jealous of the other women. This is one game you won't win and you are in over your head. The most unattractive type of woman in a liar and for a pretty lady, your personality takes so much beauty away from you.

airtonya
airtonya

@bsailors Girl, Toya talks about everyone's family. Husbands, mothers and children . The only way anyone could avoid retaliating would be to avoid being around her. Dirt, will continue to be thrown on this show because a person can only take so much dealing with the judgements of Kari and Toya. Catch that Dirt!

chazzmother
chazzmother

@sha_1 Excellent comment and to the point!!! I totally agree!!!

judy@london
judy@london

@sha-1-Thank you,I couldn't have said it better.Toya thinks she can say what ever she wants about the other ladies and it's no big deal,but god forbid anyone say something about HER.

Constance1
Constance1

 @Lyricg1

 Sorry but aren't all of the folks doing these shows for "COINS?"

Constance1
Constance1

 @Bravofn

 They certainly don't appreciate that Toya appears more accepted within the circle than they.  Toya is either a better game player or simply a nicer person.....take your pick!

tekakce
tekakce

 @Bravofn CLEARLY YOU MIssed the part when she boldly interrupted the convo mariah was having& started flipping mariah's hair in the same manner as to which she claims mariah done to her.. step outside the cookybox n look in.. mariah is no better but THE VICTIM THING IS ALOT OLD... BACKSTAB YOU MEAN LIKE WHEN HER N KARI BLANTANTLY TALK ISH ABOUT EVERY1..PLEASE HAVE 4SEATS

airtonya
airtonya

@Bravofn Isn't that what Toya was doing? She couldn't even focus on having lunch with her hubby because she was so focused on Mariah.

NOwaygirl
NOwaygirl

 @Bravofn SHE ATTACKED FIRST!! How did so many people not watch the same show we watched?  How would you react to someone throwing a glass at your face?

misbehavin911
misbehavin911

 @Bravofn

 Toya is "obtuse" "That's her character. She have none!" LOL (Mariah said it best) choose carefully who you pick your fights with...Mariah hit it on the Nail Toya is Obtuse.i

Ingersharay
Ingersharay

@Militarybrat I agree with you! They do not even realize how they are making their husbands look On national tv. And who in the world fights at a black tie event in a ball gown???? And worse of all who's mother have you ever seen join in the fight. That was classless!!!! Now we see why Mariah is the way she is. Apple didn't fall far from the tree.

Sundevil
Sundevil

@NOwaygirl I'm saying "yes, yes yes!" to my computer right now!! Lol FINALLY, someone has watched the same show I did! And EVERYTHING Toya just said in this blog about the damage Quad just did to her family, and how could she forgive that, is EXACTLY what Mariah expressed about Toya's gossip about her daughter's paternity issue. Karma much?

MsLeilah
MsLeilah

 @misbehavin911 You're wrong. Their viewers would go up.  Dram is what makes a reality show GREAT.  They'll be back. If not, someone else will bring the drama, believe it.

FlutterBy
FlutterBy

@misbehavin911 Toyas "admission" of her arrest recently pretty much decided for me if this show comes back and she is on it....I won't watch....uhhh...yeah....its called failing to dvr which is how I watch most tv.....look, I did not get highly interested in the show, but having someone manipulate system and still not admit to having a drinking while driving problem seals it for me....wonder how many victims of drunk driving comes through her husbands ER shift?? You would think his conversations about them would be enough for her....Bravo, hear us out on this one.....

angel22
angel22

@misbehavin911 Exactly if you Toya and Kari are on the show IF there is a next season I will not watch. The teenage etiquette is ridiculous

Militarybrat
Militarybrat

@misbehavin911 Toya doesn't need to work. Dr. Eugene is making enough money to support his family. Eugene is a DOCTOR!

Ingersharay
Ingersharay

@angel22 I agree with you that the etiquette was bad. But do you think quad, and Mariah could stand a etiquette class or two??? Kari said things that should not have been said but then they all did, truth be told. They all just disrespect each other and for what???