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Scheana Defends Herself After Sandoval's "Other Woman" Dig: "I Didn't Know What IMDb Was"

Scheana Shay is clapping back at Tom Sandoval after he brought up her decades-old relationship with Eddie Cibrian.

By Allison Crist Apr 23, 2024, 9:01 PM ET

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Fed up with the continued talk about his affair on Vanderpump Rules Season 11, Episode 13, Tom Sandoval decided to bring up the one Scheana Shay took part in nearly 20 years ago when she dated Eddie Cibrian.

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Now, Scheana's standing up for herself on the April 23 episode of the Vanderpump Rules After Show.

Scheana Shay's Response to Tom Sandoval Calling Her "the Other Woman"

After Tom's remark, Scheana said on the VPR After Show, "He's gonna go and compare something I did when I was 21 and unaware that this person was in a relationship, when I was very single and 21, to something he did while in a relationship and 41? That's what we're gonna compare to? It was just the most absurd argument."

"It infuriated the sh-t out of me," she continued. "I'm just like, what the f-ck is wrong with you?"

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Scheana also called out Tom for "deflect[ing]," noting, "You are not gonna try and compare me to you — apple, orange."

"Also, download Apples," she added, referencing her song.

Scheana Shay sitting in front of a backdrop.

Scheana during the Vanderpump Rules After Show Season 11, Episode 13. Photo: Bravo

Scheana Shay Says She "Didn't Cheat on Anyone"

Scheana continued to defend herself by addressing her relationship with Eddie head on. "I didn't cheat on anyone. I was lied to. I was 21," she said. "I didn't Google anyone. I didn't know what IMDb was. I didn't even know who he was — he was an actor in LA who was cute with dimples."

Why Tom Sandoval Brought Up Scheana Shay's Relationship with Eddie Cibrian

Tom, meanwhile, provided additional context for his remark about Scheana being the "other woman" during the same episode of the Vanderpump Rules After Show.

Tom Sandoval wearing a black blazer and a white tee shirt in front of a blue backdrop

Tom Sandoval during the Vanderpump Rules Season 11 aftershow. Photo: Bravo

"I remember when that sh-t went down with Scheana and she told me about it. And like, yeah, it was a long ass time ago, but I never gave her any sh-t about it," Tom said. "I never judged ... I know it's different. It's a different thing. I just know personally I will never be able to give anybody sh-t about doing that. You know what I mean? Even if it's 15 years from now."

"What I did was horrible — of course it was, there's no getting away from that — but it's just, acting like I murdered somebody and whatever, to me, it seemed too over the top," he added. "And I think what really bothered me about it is the piling on with this group of friends, [it] was so relentless and they were definitely the ones spearheading that in a lot of ways."