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Scheana Shay Shares a Surprising Update on Where She Stands with Tom Sandoval Today

Vanderpump Rules' Scheana Shay addressed the status of her relationship with Tom Sandoval following their falling-out.

By Shannon Raphael

During the Vanderpump Rules Season 10 finale, Scheana Shay confronted her longtime pal, Tom Sandoval, about the infidelity that led to his breakup from Ariana Madix

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Sandoval and Scheana had been close since Season 1 of the show aired back in 2013, but their friendship came to an end as the latter cast member chose to support Ariana.

“I don’t even know where to go from here," Scheana told Sandoval while they sat together on her couch. "I mean, obviously we’re not friends anymore, because I can’t support anything you’ve done."

Though Scheana cut ties with Sandoval back in March 2023, fans began to wonder about the status of their friendship when Scheana swung by Sandoval's hotel room during BravoCon 2023.

Scheana has since clarified why she spent some time with Sandoval during the Las Vegas weekend, and she addressed the matter once again on the February 2 episode of her podcast, Scheananigans with Scheana Shay. She also revealed whether she has developed any sort of friendship with Sandoval again. 

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Are Scheana Shay and Tom Sandoval friends?

During the podcast episode, Scheana noted that she is not "besties" with Sandoval again. 

"Everyone who wants to go and think [that] Tom and I are just besties again because we're seen at the same event, or God forbid, [because] I was having a conversation with Captain Jason [Chambers] — which we've addressed multiple times after BravoCon — but I just want to remind people... what I don't think people understand is, there were two conversations I had in Sandoval's room at BravoCon. One was with Captain Jason about his children's charity," she explained. "The next one was with Tom, and I was telling him to shut the f-ck up and stop talking about Ariana."

Scheana continued, "Every conversation I've had with Tom Sandoval since filming has wrapped has been in defense of Ariana. Literally, I have said to him so many times... 'Nobody gives a f-ck about A, B, C, or D that you want to complain about... Nobody f-cking cares! Stop.'" 

A split of Scheana Shay and Tom Sandoval.

Scheana Shay Addresses Why She Was at Tom Sandoval's Hotel Room at BravoCon 2023 

Back when BravoCon 2023 was in full swing in November, Scheana spoke with Page Six about how her conversations with Sandoval were not about rekindling their friendship.

"There was a lot that was said, and I’ve not been easy on him," she said, before noting that she went to his hotel room to have "conversations" with him about why he shouldn't be speaking about Ariana. "I’ve been very stern with how I feel and what I disagree with."

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