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Tom Schwartz Reveals What Really Happened with Jo Wenberg: “I Don’t Regret It”

"I thought we were on the same page," the Vanderpump Rules cast member said while sharing new details on his former romance with Jo.

By Abby Feiner

Throughout Season 11 of Vanderpump Rules, Tom Schwartz has struggled to define his "situationship" with Jo Wenberg, and on Episode 11, their romance officially came to an end. Now, Tom is sharing more details about the relationship, including some misconceptions about it.

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During the April 9 episode, Jo attended a singles night with Tom and got upset when she saw him kissing another woman. "I was under the impression that why we were here was to support Tom Sandoval, and then when we got here, he was interested in other women," she said in an episode interview. "I mean, what am I? Chopped liver, you know."

"I know the truth, and the truth is that we are still hooking up. We've said I love you to each other. It bothers me that he doesn't really want to share this relationship with his friends. I'm tired of feeling like a secret."

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Tom Schwartz explains why he kissed another woman in front of Jo Wenberg

In the Vanderpump Rules Season 11 After Show video above, Tom shared why he kissed another woman that night, despite the fact that Jo was there. "I had no expectations from singles night...maybe one in a million times I would go to a singles night and meet somebody that I dig," he said. "[Jo] kind of invited herself, but also, at that point, we had talked about, we had informally moved on... I thought we were on the same page by that point."

After Jo left the event in the episode, she and Tom had an emotional conversation in which she asked if he was embarrassed by her. However, Tom explained in the video above, that wasn't the case. "I wasn't embarrassed by her," he said. "By that point, I had made up my mind definitively that I did not want to be in a relationship with Jo."

Still, he explained, "I don't want to relegate her to a rebound girl because I don't think she was."

"We became really close friends, too," he added. "It wasn't just an occasional hookup buddy."

A split of Tom Schwartz and Jo Wenberg.

Where do Tom Schwartz and Jo Wenberg stand today?

These days, Tom and Jo's relationship is a "significantly watered down version of what it used to be," he shared in the video above.

"But still friends. I think she's hanging out with somebody, I'm hanging out with somebody," he continued. "We're super cool. There's definitely no bad blood or hard feelings. I don't regret it. It was super fun. I think we really enriched each other's lives for that stretch."

Watch more of the Vanderpump Rules Season 11 After Show above. 

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