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Ally Lewber Reveals the Surprising Thing She and James Are “Working Up To” in Their Relationship

The Vanderpump Rules couple has an unexpected routine at home. 

By Abby Feiner

At BravoCon 2023, James Kennedy and Ally Lewber explained they are "not rushing anything" in terms of getting engaged, but as Ally revealed in the video above, there is one thing they are currently "working up to" in their relationship — and it might surprise you. 

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In the clip, which is a preview of Vanderpump Rules Season 11, Episode 9, James pulled some potential outfits for Ally to wear out of her closet. "I'm not a shopper, so James, he picks out my clothes, he steams my dresses for me," Ally explained in an interview during the episode, which will air on March 26. "He does not curl my hair yet, but I always joke because, like, we're working up to that."

For now, Ally seems to be doing a great job of styling her own hair, as evidenced in the video above. 

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James Kennedy holding up a white dress and a pink purse.


Have James Kennedy and Ally Lewber discussed a future engagement?

As previously noted, James and Ally opened up at BravoCon 2023 about possibly getting engaged. “It’s been an amazing year, you know,” James said during the Las Vegas event weekend. “Obviously, I love Ally more than anything, and I see [marriage] in our future. But, again, we’re not rushing anything. It’s been an amazing year… I’m over the moon. I haven’t been this filled with joy in so long. I love our little family and our little house in Burbank, and everything is just sweet.”

Ally explained she and James were on the same page about the subject. “James bought a house this year. We’re now doggy parents, so yeah, things are going great,” she said on the panel. “I don’t think we’re in a huge rush for that. We’re really content with where we’re at… We’re good.”


While James and Ally are aligned on engagement timing, they may have different feelings about having children together. In the Vanderpump Rules midseason trailer, James says to Ally, "I definitely see babies in our future," to which Ally responds, "I've never felt that." 

To see how that conversation will unfold, watch new episodes of Vanderpump Rules on Tuesdays at 8/7c on Bravo. Stream episodes the next day on Peacock

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