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Luann de Lesseps: I Don’t Hold Grudges

“As for Sonja, she needs a girlfriend, not a #straightjacket!!”

By Luann de Lesseps
Who Is Sonja Talking To?!

I’m not a grudge holder, and I’m able to forgive (and sometimes forget). My inner peace is more important to me than focusing on the past; this is why you saw me chat with Missy (yes, THAT Missy) and tell her that the man was the problem, not her! Like Sonja says, even prison #bitches have one person that has got their back. As for Sonja, she needs a girlfriend, not a #straightjacket!!

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When my marriage ended, I needed to find an apartment in New York for when I’m in the city. My good friend Ann Cutbill is a realtor at Douglas Elliman and she knows me well…We were #roomies in the eighties #bighairdidntcare! The apartment she showed me was too big for what I need. Victoria and Noel have their own places in the city, so I don’t need that much space anymore. If anyone can find me the perfect apartment with outdoor space, it’s Ann, because #anniegetsitdone!

For some time, Carole and I had uncomfortable energy between us, and I felt that we should try to put any negative feelings from the past aside so that we can be better friends. I told her that I take her relationship with Adam as seriously as I take any of my girlfriends’ relationships. She was right that the phone rings both ways and we should have reached out to each other. That being said, our friendship is now in a peaceful place…#OHM

Lastly, congratulations to Bethenny on her new denim line and on her successful relief efforts for the people of Puerto Rico. Whatever she does, she always gives #onehundredpercent!

Until next week, don’t forget the #GirlCode!!

Life is a cabaret and so is my new show #CountessandFriends! Go to for tickets.

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