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Was Cary Deuber Really Mark Deuber's Family's Nanny?

"Peope love a scandal, just dirt, dirt, dirt," The Real Housewives of Dallas mom said.

By Brianna Meagher
Brandi Redmond Says Cary Deuber Had an Affair

Throughout this season of The Real Housewives of Dallas, ‘Wife Cary Deuber and her husband Mark Deuber have been on the receiving end of many nasty rumors. One of the most shocking is the rumor that Cary had an affair with Mark when she worked as a nanny for his family while he was still married to his ex-wife. Cary and Mark spilled all of the details in an interview with The Daily Dish podcast.

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“I wasn't the nanny. I babysat the kids probably a handful of times when Mark and his ex-wife were in Europe together,” explained Cary. She went on to say that as a nurse, when the surgeons are out on vacation, she doesn’t work, and so it was natural for her to offer to babysit Mark’s children while he was away. “I had nothing to do for the weeks that he is in St. Tropez or in Switzerland, and so I would graciously actually watch his kids, take them to school, pick them up, and feed them while him and his ex-wife were out of the country,” continued Cary.

Mark clarified that Cary had babysat for another surgeon friend of his prior and this friend suggested Mark ask Cary for help when he went on vacation. “She had babysat one of their kids and they're like, ‘Hey she could watch your kids. She's watched ours and she's great; she's trustworthy.’ I'm like, ‘Yeah, that makes perfect sense.’ And the kids loved her,” said Mark.

“These are respected surgeons in our community. They wanted someone they could trust and they know they could trust me,” Cary explained.

Both Cary and Mark said that they don’t care which rumors people believe because they are happily married and they know the truth. “I mean, if you want to believe we had an affair, believe it. Go ahead. We didn't, but go ahead and believe it. It doesn't hurt us either way,” said Mark.

Hear more about the nanny rumors, the RHOD reunion, and whether or not Cary would consider returning for a season 3 in the podcast above.

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